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Can Your Baby Tell You Are Stressed?

Babies & toddlers DO pick up on stress in the home and often act out what they are unable to put into words. 

Our partners at Zero To Three, the national parenting resource non-profit, have a message for parents about coping with stress:

During stressful times, try not to for­get that your child, as little as he is, is affected by the feelings of others close to him. If his behavior becomes more challenging, remember that this might be his only way of telling you that he is stressed too!

Zero to Three offers the following tips on parenting your child who may be reacting to your stress:

Learn to be a “Feelings Detective”. Babies or toddlers may communicate their stress through increased aggression, regression (a return to more “babyish” behaviors such as night awakening, want­ing to be held all the time, or losing interest in the potty—depending on her age), sleep changes, whin-ing/crying, and/or clinginess. Rather than getting mad, try to figure out what your young child is trying to tell you about how she is feeling. Often these be­haviors are a sign of needing more reassurance. Then you can figure out how to support her through this rough time as best you can. Don’t hesitate to talk to your pediatrician or a counselor if you have concerns about your child’s behavior.

Reassure your child, through words, gestures, and comforting activities, that he will continue to be loved and nurtured no matter how he is behaving or what is happening in the world around him.

Babies and toddlers pick up on the stress of their caregivers. When you feel sad and scared, they do too. It’s a tall order, but try to be aware of your own behavior and responses during stressful times. This will help you manage your feelings and actions in ways that can reduce the stress on both you and your child.

Check out the Zero To Three website for more great information on child development and printable resources for parents and caregivers.


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